courage.

yesterday i realized something about myself.

i let soo many ppl walkk all over me, hurt me, abuse my friendship, and betray me and i just ignore it.

well i decided today is the day i stand up for myself! 

i know that sound kinda like wft. you shoulda been standing up ferr yerrself years ago, how old are you. 

yea i know and i'm dumb. and i guess it's because i'm exactly like my mother. we trust ppl wayy to easily and we let ppl we care about walk all over us because we feel likke if we don't help them or that if we don't do what they askk we'll be the bad person. . . i guess i jusst got too much a bigg heart to be likke fuckk youu and yerr a bitch.

well ya know what not no more! 

i am taking a stand. 

i'm not gonna let ppl push me around anymore.

i'm not gonna let ppl in and shut down and let them take over my life, and how i feel.

i'm not going to let them put things into my head that aren't real because you know what, i believe in myself and if thats all i have now then i guess thats all i need. i know my friends like bri and kristen and ruby and david all believe me. and ilove them so much for that and of course alex. but everyone else lately can go fuckk off. 

i am going to live my life how i want to and if that means smoking pot evey now and again than i'm going to.

if that means being with my boyfriend javon that i'm going to. 

i love javon and i don't give a fuckk about what anyone anymore has to say because i believe in myself and believe that we are going to be together ferr quit some time. 

and another thing, ppl outt there have been telling me i'm not gonna make it and i'm not going to amount to anything. well fuck you all. i will show you that i'm going to make something out of myself and prove all of you wrong. yea this post is kinda a angry one but you know what i'm saying exactly how i feel because i am an honest person.

the other day i got told by a family memeber of mine that i'm disappointment they are ashemd to live with they are ashmed to call me their own, and ya know what i don't need anyone to believe in me, it would nice but i'm going to prove him wrong that i'm not like everyone else and i'm going to show him that i am and i will be successful in my life because i believe in myself. 

the only ppl i truly believe believe in me in my family anymore is my sister and my mom. that is about it. they are truly the only ones.. . that hurst me to say but that is how i feel. 

one day i will show you all how much you are so wrong! 

that i'm not like the rest of this family. i'm going to show you that i'm going to make something out of myself and i will not i will not let myself thinkk that i'm going to end up on the streets pregnant or out of a job with no education but you know what i believe what my grandpa use to tell me about everyday when he was still here on this earth and that was. baby girl always believe in yourself and know you can and will do anything i believe in you and that will never change. well grandpa i miss you. i wish i had that again where you could tell me that you were proud of me... 

Grandpa, I love you, you have taught me a very valuable lesson and that is to have courage in myself and you know what now i finally do. Grandpa i can't wait till that dayy when i see you again in heaven and we are sitting beside Jesus and you are telling me that you are so proud of how i lived my life and hugg me jusst likke when i was a little girl....

papa i miss youu so much. and this blog that i have wrote is dedicated to you because if it wasn't for you and my mommi and sister i wouldn't have the courage i do now in myself. i love you 3 so very much. you have made me stronger.

i jusst wanna go backk to when i was a little girl and everyone was all so happy... :/